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Why I Think You {yes, YOU!} Are Beautiful

4/11/2016

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Would you like to be like a tree? I know I would. The Bible describes the righteous man {and woman!} as a tree that is planted by the rivers of water, growing strong and beautiful. {Psalm 1}

When is the last time you thought about how a tree looks? Like really looks? I don't think I ever really thought much about the anatomy of a tree until I painted one on the wall in the kid's room last week.

I painstakingly tried to make every branch and every leaf look perfect. When a branch ended up at a funny angle I wished I could erase it and start over again. But you can't erase paint! ;)
A shout out to Christian women everywhere - what painting a tree taught me about true beauty. <3
And then I started thinking about what trees really look like. Only fake trees are perfect. A real tree has knots and crooked branches and blemished leaves.

Just like us.

God uses something that is imperfect but beautiful and strong to describe the life of a person who is dwelling in Him.

We are all kind of like trees. We have our little faults and issues and scars, but we are created by a wonderful God. He lovingly designed every bit of us and we need to quit wishing we were different. We need to quit judging each other by any certain measuring stick, because nothing God created is a copy.

Instead, let's thank God for making us who we are! We've all had good and bad things that have shaped our branches as they grow and that is what makes us unique and beautiful.

If you're like me, you tend to me such more critical of yourself than you are of those around you. We wish we could hide the flaws that sorrow and sin create. We feel too fat or too skinny. Maybe there's a part of our story that we wish we could hide, but it seems to be out in the open, way too easy to spot.

But you know, the thing is, we aren't supposed to be perfect. The blood of Jesus has made us perfect in God's eyes and when we're in Heaven, we will be perfect. But for now, we are flawed, and still beautiful. When I quit going for perfection on the tree I was painting and embraced the beautiful imperfection of a real tree instead, it became exactly what I wanted. Not perfect, but beautiful.
A shout out to Christian women everywhere - what painting a tree taught me about true beauty. <3
So, dear friend, in case I haven't told you recently:

You are beautiful.

You are strong.

You are thriving where God has planted you.

Your hurts and sorrows do not make you less, but more

You are encouraging.

You are lovely.

You are important and needed.

And you are loved, by God and me.


Whether you have gone through a lot of trials or you feel just like a normal person, living a normal life, your life has purpose and beauty.

I am so glad God has placed you in my life. You are a picture of Jesus and you mean so much to me!

Thank you, for being my friend.
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15 Comments
Ginger Harrington link
4/12/2016 03:32:55 pm

Isn't this a message we all need to be reminded of! Thank you for the encouragement today:)

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:29:47 am

You're welcome, Ginger! Thanks for stopping by! :)

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Rebekah link
4/12/2016 07:48:20 pm

Love this! It's so easy to look at all my imperfections instead of seeing that I am made in God's image and am beautiful in his sight. In the day and age we live in it's easy to compare ourselves to the world's model of what beauty is. But God values the beauty that is hidden and quiet. I have always thought trees are beautiful, I never thought of their imperfections as part of the beauty. Thanks for these encouraging words!

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:30:48 am

It can be a daily struggle sometimes! You're so welcome, and thanks for stopping by! :)

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Minna
4/13/2016 06:32:58 am

Stef this was the PERFECT and so timely thing for me to read over coffee this morning. It genuinely made my day and was just what I needed. Thanx for writing, <3

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:31:42 am

So glad you loved it, Minna! I've always thought of you as a very beautiful person. <3 Thanks for your comment!

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Minna
4/13/2016 06:40:00 am

Stef this was the PERFECT and so timely thing for me to read over coffee this morning. It genuinely made my day and was just what I needed. Thanx for writing, <3

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Marva | sunSPARKLEshine link
4/13/2016 11:07:59 am

I love this, Stefani. We all need these sweet words of encouragement and hope. And by the way, you are beautiful and dearly loved! :-)
Wishing you blessings.

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:32:23 am

Thanks, Marva! You're sweet. :)

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Jennifer | The Deliberate Mom link
4/13/2016 04:13:39 pm

I love this and oh did I ever need it today. Some days I feel so flawed to the point of really not liking myself at all. Fortunately, because of the blood of Christ, I'm perfectly flawed. I'm so thankful for His love, grace, and mercy.

Thank you for the reminder that we are beautiful and divinely loved.
xoxo

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:33:30 am

You're beautiful, Jennifer! I'm glad this spoke to you. <3

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Dorcas Showalter link
4/13/2016 05:35:52 pm

"Your hurts and sorrows do not make you less, but more." So very true, and I find that the more authentic my friends are and transparent the more I love them. This post was exactly what I needed to read, thank you. And by the way, the tree you painted- it is lovely :)

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Stefani link
4/15/2016 10:35:17 am

I always love your encouragement, Dorcas! You're sweet. :)Thanks for leaving a comment. :)

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Ruthie Gray link
4/18/2016 11:56:35 am

My daughter and I had this exact conversation last night - about my self-talk. My 27 year old told me it was time I stopped the negative self-talk because "I think you are beautiful inside and out, you have 3 other kids who feel the same and everyone who meets you agrees, so stop it, mom"! LOL. I just loved how you wove the story of your tree painting into how we are imperfect trees, yet show character in our own experiences and imperfections.

Sharing with my readers who will also love it!

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Stefani link
4/18/2016 03:26:27 pm

Yes, exactly Ruthie! I know all your blogging buddies think you are beautiful and awesome too. :) Thanks so much for sharing this. <3

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